Monday, June 14, 2010

Some Photos of our Arizona Trip


Me with our Friend Starr from AZ




Randy and Me on the Train to The Grand Canyon




Native American Performing on the Train

Me at the Grand Canyon

Performer on the Train



Randy Standing By the Old Steam Train Engine


The Grand Canyon



Me with Friends Lisa and Mark from Mesa AZ


Randy by Jukebox in Williams AZ on Route 66


Randy with our Friend Starr from Mesa



Thursday, May 27, 2010

Labor and Delivery (the old days)

Having a baby these days is certainly different than when I had mine.  With my first one, I went to the hospital with pain around 10 PM.  They took me into the labor room.  They said I was in labor but a long way off until delivery.  They would not even let my husband come in with me at first. There was no Phone, or TV there or music or anything. They never hooked me up to any IV or any monitors at all.  They checked for dilation rectally.  Also, I had to be completely shaved. They let me husband in but every time they checked me, he had to leave the room. Labor pains were supposed to be controlled by breathing right and biting down on a cloth. Who can concentrate on breathing when they are in pain?

They did not give me anything for pain until quite a bit later and it was just a shot of Demerol.  The pain was really bad and the nurses kept telling me that having pains made the baby come. They checked me every so often for the time between contractions.  I was in labor all night.  They finally said I was ready to deliver. It was about 2 in the afternoon, about 16 hours of labor. My husband was not allowed in the delivery room.

I delivered with no pain medication at all. My water had not broken and they broke it just before they told me to push. I could feel everything and I felt like I was stretching out to the point of splitting open. Then she was here. The pain was gone and I was full of joy.  My husband didn't even get to see either one of us until they had done all the stuff they needed to do in the delivery room. Then he finally saw her for a few minutes in the hall.  They took me to a recovery room for about three hours. After the delivery, they kept coming in and pressing on my stomach to make sure my uterus went back and got firm. That hurt almost as much as the labor and delivery. I do not remember getting anything for pain after the delivery. I had no IV at any time. They wrapped me up in what seemed like a great big diaper to hold everything in place. It was done up with safety pins and I was told to wear it for a month.  They took me to my room about three hours after the delivery and the room was shared with three other women. I did finally have a phone by my bed.

My parents nor any of my friends were not allowed to visit, not even to look in the window where the babies were kept. The babies were not left with their mothers. They stayed in the nursery except to be fed every four hours. Then whisked away after only 30 minutes. My husband was not allowed to visit during feeding time because there were three other women in the room and some were nursing. Visiting hours were from 3-4 in the afternoon and 7-8 at night. So that was the only time husband's could visit.

I stayed there for one day. The hospital sent me home with three glass bottles of formula and instructions how to make formula.  They sent this even though I was nursing. It was like they were trying to tell me that I would not be able to nurse and to give the baby the formula. Back then, the baby clothes were not cute like today.  I put her in a long nightgown with a drawstring and a cloth diaper that drowned her. They did not have disposable diapers then. We used cloth diapers with ugly plastic pants over them.  I did quite well except for pain where I had stitches after my episiotomy. That hurt for quite some time. Mothers of babies delivered by C-section were put to sleep like when you have surgery and then kept in the hospital for 5 days.

All my future pregnancies were about the same except they were much faster and easier that is except for Matt.  When you have a baby fast, they don't even have time to give you pain medication because the baby comes so fast. They changed their rules about dad's in the delivery room in 1970. My husband could go in then but he had to wear a bunch surgical type clothes.  About the same time, husband's could remain in the labor room and didn't have to go out and there was music and TVs in the room.  We still had to share a room with three other women and the babies were not left with their mothers. In 1970, they used disposable diapers and disposable bottles for formula. They no longer shaved you.  At home, I still used cloth diapers. Nobody used disposables unless they were traveling.

When I had Matt, they had epidurals and heart monitors. They also gave me an IV.The epidural was good but it only lasted an hour at a time and they had to keep giving me another one every hour. In between that, the pain was terrible because he was in a posterior position and all the labor was in my back and felt like somebody was hitting me with a hammer. My water had broken with him but labor pains had not started so they put me on the pitocin but would not let me have the epidural for a long time because they said it slowed down the labor. Back then, they had no sympathy for women in labor. Just breath right and take it.  When I had Matt, my parents could come look in the window at the baby but not come in my room. My other children were not allowed. I still had to share a room with three other women.  It was kind of nice though to have the other woman there for company.

I would say that my easiest delivery was with Jennifer. The fastest with Monica, (I almost had her in the car) and hardest my first and with Tammy and Matt. (both Tammy and Matt were in the wrong position) They did not have epidurals when I had Tammy so they gave me a cervical block but it didn't help much.

So I think woman these day are lucky that they don't have to go through so much pain. First babies are the ones we really need to have a lot of help with pain with.

My mother told me when she had me, they made woman stay flat on their backs for 10 days after delivery for fear they would bleed to death. But they didn't give them anything for pain either. My mother was in labor with me for about 36 hours and the Dr. blamed her for marrying a big man and they she should not have such big babies. I only weighed 7 lbs 8 oz. My brother weight 8 lbs 12 oz and he came fast. So the Dr. was nuts.  She also got an infection after my birth because the Dr. did not care her the right way and she nearly died.  I certainly don't know how my mother-in-law had all those kids and home with only a midwife. I am surprised that they were able to go through that. I guess woman these days are big sissies, but if I were having a baby today, I would take all the help I could with the pain.

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Little Girls Spring Dance


Jaden


MattieJo and Savannah in their
Little Mermaid Costumes

MattieJo


Savannah and Kinley


Savannah


My little granddaughters, Savannah, MattieJo, Kinley and Jaden were so cute in their spring dance. I just love my family and I am so happy they get the opportunity to do some many things.

Friday, May 14, 2010

Thank you Randy

Today I would like to thank my wonderful husband, Randy. Randy has not been around little kids since he had his own many years ago. Jennifer visited yesterday and then Matt (he broke away from his work for a few minutes) and his family and Tammy came over. There were 4 little girls here with tons of energy and Randy kept them all entertained with Popsicles and soft drinks and playing with them etc. They just love him and gave him big hugs when they left. He also fixed up the trailer for Jennifer and Zoe with hot water, television etc.

Randy also grilled steaks and hot dogs and put up with our "Family Fish Fry" (as Marty calls family get togethers) We were all a noisy bunch and Randy was the perfect host. Even though he had a cold, he really worked hard to make it a nice BBQ even though we had to bring it inside because of the weather turned crappy.

Earlier in the day, we went to Salt Lake to pick up Jennifer and Zoe from Tina's. Jennifer took us out to lunch at The Garden Restaurant in the Joseph Smith Building where we had a beautiful view of the temple and downtown Salt Lake. We then went to visit The Cathedral of the Madeline which is a Catholic cathedral. It was very beautiful inside with stained glass windows and a organ loft where beautiful pipe organ was playing with a stained glass window above. This is the first time I have visited the cathedral.  We also visited Matt at his work and looked at his vintage "Carrillo" Chevy truck that he is putting in the auto show. It will be a real tribute to his Dad. Zoe enjoyed playing with the little girls and Jennifer and Tammy enjoyed holding little Kelby. He has lots of dark hair and everyone hopes it will stay that way and be more like Dad's, but his hair will probably end up being blonde.


Jennifer and Zoe left today for Zion's park to hike with Tina and Marissa. Then Jennifer will be heading back home to Seattle. We hope to see her again soon perhaps in August. 

Randy, we all appreciate you and I appreciate you for putting up with my noisy family and being such a good and very gracious host. People who really know Randy, know that he is a really great guy most of the time.

Monday, May 10, 2010

Mother's Day 2010





I enjoyed a very Wonderful Mother's Day. Tina and her family visited and Brian even brought his cat, Smokey. Smokey will even ride on Brian's back on his bicycle. Randy and I, John and Kathy and Tina's family enjoyed a Chinese Buffet as well.

Thanks to my family for all the wonderful gifts I received as well.

We are photographed with four generations of first-borns. Me, Tina, Felicia and Raia. In 2002, we had five generations when Grandma Johnson was still with us. I don't know if Pugsley was a first generation, but she got in the photo as well.

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

Sisters Greet New Little Brother


MattieJo, Kinley and Jaden are so excited over their new little brother, Kelby. Here he is viewing the world for the first time.

The Ugly Bug Ball



Savannah and MattieJo performed in a very cute Kindergarten program the other night. It was called the Ugly Bug Ball. Little kids are so cute and innocent and they had so much fun performing the program. Even though Kinley and Jaden were not in the program, they were very excited to be there too.

Thursday, April 29, 2010

Girls and Grandkids Day Out: Tulip Festival

On April 24th, me, Tina, Monica, Tammy, Fleicia and Robin celebrated an Tina's early birthday at Thanksgiving Point. They were having their Tulip Festival. It was very beautiful with man-made waterfalls, gardens, statues and of course, many flowers and TULIPS. There was so much to see that it would have taken all day to see it all and it was a lot of walking but very enjoyable except for the crowds.  We also ate at the Harvest Restaurant at Thanksgiving point.

I got to spend time with my great grandchildren, Raia and Jesse. They are so fun to be with. Jesse is a real character. I also spent time with Savannah and Lacey.  Felicia is expecting a baby girl in August.

Before the Tulip Festival, we attened Contessa's baby shower. Her baby is due in a few weeks. Her name is Kennedy. Contessa got a lot gifts for her little one. We are excited for her new baby and for Contessa.

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Crystal Hot Springs




Last Friday we went to Crystal Hot Springs and spent the weekend with Monica and her family and also with Tammy and Savannah and dogs. John and Kathy also came. I couldn't get Randy in the water but Tammy, Monica and I and Savannah and Lacey enjoyed the pools. We had a good time visiting and the weather was very nice. We surely don't have the energy we used to though. I did not get very good photos. We are looking forward to camping at Palisades next.

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

You Might Be A Skeptic IF?

YES IT'S TRUE: I AM A SKEPTIC
I like to think and I like evidence but that does not mean I do not believe. I never thought of myself as an intellectual but I question before I decide. I have had spiritual experiences and so I am both skeptical and spiritual. I always want to know more and it may have gotten me into trouble but that's just the way I am. I am hungry for answers to everything. And I am open to all thoughts and ideas. God gave us the power to think and I think we should.

Definition of a Skeptic:

Do you believe in bigfoot? How about leprechauns? if not, then you might be a skeptic!

If you think all skeptics are atheists, you're very wrong. You can be a skeptic if you don't believe in many things around us that have very little proof that they either exist, or if it is a process, that the evidence of it's claims are not true. Take acupuncture for example. Many people testify that's its claims are true, but very little scientific and non-biased studies have proven that it's not so..

If you have questions or doubts about the following items, then you too, might be a skeptic.

Do you believe in

That there is a civilization on Mars who built a building that looks like a face

UFOs, UFO abduction, Bigfoot, Revelations from the Bible

911 Conspiracy Magic Jewelry with magnetic healing properties, Healing Touch therapy

Ghosts or Orbs Roswell aliens An aura around you

Vaccines cause autism Phrenology, physiognomy, palmistry, or ideology Nostradamus


Crop Circles Will ethanol save us? Remote viewing

if so then you might be a skeptic!

Skepticism is not the rejection of ideas or beliefs, but doubting and suspending our judgement about claims presented. Reasoning of such claims should be made under sound, consistent logic and not emotions or social pre assure. Truth of factual claims is not determined by the emotion than accompanies then nor the fact that they might be believed by certain social groups.

Not every claim can be true. But how does one know the difference? You might say common sense. This is true to an extent, but there are a lot of people whose "common sense" tell them a lot of unbelievable things.

To help determine the validity of a claim, you need to employ a process. In the sciences, that process is called the scientific method. Simplified, it goes like this: First, you form a hypothesis ("The world is round."). Then you make observations about your hypothesis (fly a plane around the world, send up a network of satellites). Your observations will either invalidate your hypothesis (your plane smashes into a wall at the edge of the earth), or they won't. If your hypothesis is invalidated, you modify it to fit the new data and repeat until you have a reasonably good model, or "theory," of the way things actually are.

In the strictest sense, no set of observations will ever "prove" a scientific hypothesis. But when there is a huge preponderance of evidence, we can basically accept the hypothesis as true. Very few people today (make no mistake, there are some!) believe that the world is flat because of a preponderance of evidence demonstrating that it is round.

Skepticism takes this same approach and applies it to everything. So, what is skepticism, exactly?

The word "skepticism" has a bit of a bad reputation. You often hear the word "skeptic" in the same sentence as "cynic." All skepticism means is that when people make claims, those claims should be open to testing and should be judged on the quality of the evidence. If the claim being made flies in the face of what we already know, then the burden of proof is on the one making the claim to demonstrate the truth of their claim.

Extraordinary Claims Require Extraordinary Evidence
When you hear a claim, what do you feel is the likelihood of this claim being true, based on what we already know? If someone claims "I lost my keys," you probably won't require a great deal of evidence. People lose their keys all the time. It's not an extraordinary claim.

If, instead, they claim "I can walk through walls," most people will be a lot more skeptical. No one has ever been known to walk through walls before. Furthermore, if someone were able to do so, it would literally require physicist to rewrite their model of the universe from the ground up. It is quite an extraordinary claim. For the most part, claims like this can be dismissed out of hand. That said, a true skeptic will gladly accept such claims as true if the claimant can demonstrate their ability in truly a controlled environment (i.e., not susceptible to trickery or other methods of deception). For instance, the James Randi Educational Foundation, one of the foremost skeptic organizations, has a standing $1,000,000 prize for anyone able to demonstrate a paranormal ability in a controlled environment. To date, no one has claimed the prize.

Religion
Many skeptics consider religion off the table, arguing that people's deeply-held beliefs should not be subjected to scrutiny, and that the claims made by religion are not falsifiable (that is there is no way to test their validity) and are therefore outside the realm of science or skepticism. Other skeptics gladly tackle religious topics, arguing that just because a given claim was written down thousands of years ago, it shouldn't be exempt from skeptical scrutiny. I personally tend to side with the latter group. No claim, particularly any claim upon which people chose to base their entire lives, should be exempt from examination.

The lady we stayed with in Santa Rosa has a sister who is a famous writer. Her name is http://www.ellynbache.com/