Thursday, August 30, 2007

Birthday Boys: August is Boys Month








DAD AND HIS BOYS PICTURED ABOVE
minus Matt

I really know how to pick a month for boys! What I did was make sure I was pregnant almost the whole hot summer to be sure I would have a boy. Actually NOT. It just worked out that way I guess. Matt actually wasn't due unil Sept 3.

So these are my boys: John
Born Aug. 10, 1967. He was my little bald boy. Born a couple weeks early, he weighed 6 lbs. 13 oz.
Then there is Marty: Born Aug 7, 1970. He had so much black hair. He weighed 8 lbs 3 oz.
Last but not least is my baby boy Matthew. An unexpected surprise. It's birthday today! He was a hard baby to have but he is worth it. He weighed 8 lbs 8 oz.

Happy Birthday to all my boys and a Happy Birthday today to Matt!

Polynesia Night

Beverly and I enjoyed a lovely night last Friday at the Scera Shell. We went to a luau and then to a Polynesian program. Before the program, there was a talent show kind of like American Idol. They were down to their last 3 contestants. One guy sang Bridge Over Troubled Water and he got a standing ovation from everyone. He was even better than the original singer.

The Polynesian program was very good too but I wish they would have had fire. They represented Hawaii, Samoa, Tahiti, Tonga, New Zealand and Fiji. It was wonderful. A nice way to spend a Friday evening.

New Driveway and New Lawn

Well, I guess I am going to have to break down do it: my yard that is. I am getting a cement driveway in the back by the shop. It will be a T-Shaped driveway that comes in from the road on the north and goes both South and North and East. I can either drive East to the shop or drive West toward the house. The main driveway will start on the north where the gate is. Cement is really expensive!!

Then in Oct. I am getting a new sprinkling system with a timer and new top soil and sod on my front and side lawn. It's expensive but not as much as the cement. I hate spending money but I can't stand my yard any longer. With all this money I am putting into it, I expect the kids not sell it or have it torn down. That will be a big wast of money. Next year I will get either sod or hydro-seed on the back lawn around the cement and some gravel in places the cement and sod doesn't cover.

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

News

Well Summer is nearly over. It passed so fast! I hate the heat but I also hate the cold. I hope we have a long warm Fall. I am going to try to get my front yard re-landscaped. My lawn is mostly dead and full of weeds. We fertilize it and water it and everything but it still looks like crap. I guess it gave up when Alex died. Anyway, somebody is coming tomorrow to look at the front lawn and give me a quote on how much it will be to dig up the old lawn, put in a sprinkling system on a timer and put in sod. I know it will be expensisve. I want to get the back lawn done too. That will have to wait until later. I wish I could put most of the backyard into cement or asphault. Somebody is coming today to look about doing some cement in the backyard in front of the shop and a driveway leading to the gate on the north.

I have something else to look forward to: Tina and I will be going to St. George and Mesquite on a girl's trip on September 19. We will see some plays and stay at the Casa Blanca and swim and go to the spa. We will also stay in Springdale on the way to Zion's Canyon where Tina can hike and I can relax. It will be so fun!

Thursday, August 23, 2007

Cool Photo

From The Oregon Coast. So Relaxing!

At Least Something to Look Forward To

So I decided I couldn't stand it, so I booked another cruise. It was so cheap I couldn't pass it up. We will be going to the Mexican Rivera. The price for Beverly and I together was less than we paid singly for the Alaska cruise. It's not until March, but at least I have something to look forward to.

Tomorrow I am going with Beverly to a luau and a Polynesian program at the Scera Shell.

Life is Too Complicated

It seems like I never get anything right. I never get anything done I plan because something always comes along to complicate things. Last week it was this blog thing which was messed up. And I booked a cruise and needed my previous member number to put on my account and they said they couldn't find it. So I filled out a thing online in order to obtain it and then it tells me they can't do that function right now and to try back later. Don' you just hate it when you get something all filled out and then it kicks you out or tells you to try again? Sometimes I hate computers and the Web.

And now it's a stupid charge that got put on my credit card by mistake. And also my grandson making me even more upset. Stress is all I ever get. I wish I could go on a permanent vacation. When I am on vacation I don't get stressed as much. It's like I am in a different life and a different person.

Monday, August 20, 2007

My Funny Granddaughter

Yesteday Matt and Kelly came over. We then went to Chuck-A-Rama. Mattie Jo decided she had to go potty. As Kelly was taking her, she shouted to the whole restaurant: "I'm going potty." It was so funny. Then when she came back, she told me that "her pee came out." Hilarious!

Rita and The Angry Itch

Ever since Saturday I have been itching all over my body. And the slightest pressure causes my skin to turn red. It's not just a regular itch, but a burning prickly itch. I do think it has something to do with the heat and my clothes. I sweat a lot under my clothes and then sweat doesn't evaporate and then the itch starts. Even being in the heat will cause my skin to burn and itch. When I am in a really cool place (72 and below) I do not get this problem as much.

I asked the Dr. and he wants me to go off my blood pressure pills for a couple of weeks and see if that is it. I don't think so because I have been on them for over a month and it just barely started to happen. I think it's related to MS and heat. I fee better when I go around with just a shift dress on with nothing underneath. The itching is worse where clothes bind me like around the waist and chest. I have been doing Aveeno Oatmeal baths and it helps to soothe but it comes back. I am using Gold Bond lotion and it helps a little. I haven't noticed a difference in taking Benadryl. Right now I have red scathes and bumps all over me. I need some relief!!

Saturday, August 18, 2007

Growing up in the 40's and 50's

We didn't have gas furnaces. People used coal and you had to have a big room just to put the coal in. If you didn't use coal, you used oil. To make it so you didn't have to put the coal in manually, you could buy a stoker which automatically put the coal in for you. There were always ashes to take out everyday. We didn't have garbage pickup. We put our trash in an incinerator and then when it was full, we took it to the dump ourselves.

Mother's wore dresses called 'house dresses" when at home around the house. They seldom wore pants. They always had on frilly aprons to keep their dresses clean. We curled our hair using bobby pins and they were called pin curls. Sometimes we even curled our hair using rags. Very few woman drove; one car per family was all there ever was. Kids always shared their rooms unless they were an only child. The rooms in most homes were very small compared to today. Girls had to wear dresses to school. In the winter we had to wear long cotton stockings hooked on with a garter belt to keep them up. We had to wear heavy rubber boots over our shoes in the winter. The radio was all we had until the early 50's when television came out. There were only 2 or three stations and no color. The hospitals were much different then too. I went to have my appendix out and I had to stay 5 days. I had to share my room with 4 other ladies. There were no telephones or TVs in the hospital room. Nurses wore stiff white uniforms with white silk stockings and they always wore a cap.

All of us got and expected to get childhood diseases. Like mumps, chicken pox, German measles and red measles. There was no vaccine for them at the time. When we went out driving, there no seat belts and no child seats required. They didn't have contact lenses so we had to wear glasses if we had bad eyes. Most of the kids clothes were made at home. It used to be cheaper that way. We didn't have very many clothes. Mothers usually stayed at home unless they were school teachers or single or divorced. One salary per family seemed to be enough. Of course we didn't have as many things to buy in those days as now. There were no electronic games and computers. Kid played outside jumping the rope, roller skating, wading in ditches, running through the sprinkler, or playing jacks. Inside they played board games and paper dolls or guessing games. Our pets were not even treated very well. They had to be outside most of the time and if they got sick, then if they didn't get better, then they died. We never bought special pet food for them to eat. They ate table scraps and what they could find outdoors. One of our cats used to eat a lot of grasshoppers. No wonder they pets got sick with the kind of care they got.

We usually saw all the movies that came out because one movie would come out at a time and play for a couple of weeks and then another would play. There were seldom more than one movie to choose from. Phonograph records were hard plastic and broke very easily and got scratched. They were 78 records and played really fast. There were no Barbie dolls. Girls played with baby dolls. We always had to wear undershirts under our clothes. Only a few kids had braces. Most adults over 30 had dentures. Pierced ears was a no no. They were only worn by wild girls and boys never wore earrings. Boys hair was always short and slick. They used hair tonic to keep their hair down.

My mother baked 8 loaves of bread a week. She canned everything. Nothing was permanent press so she had huge ironing's to do in which she had to sprinkle and starch some of the clothes. People seldom had showers in their homes. The just had the bathtub. Baths were only taken about once a week. But we had to wash up before meals. Clothes were hung outside to dry. Nobody had dryers.

Fast food didn't didn't really start until the mid 50's in our area and they were take out only. Hamburgers, hot dogs, fries etc. There weren't that many restaurants either. The only they had that I would consider not American was the China City cafe in Provo.

School was different too. They did not come down on anybody for using the N word or calling people names but you better not take the Lord's name in vain or use the F word. Bullies were rampant in the 50's. The teachers didn't seem to care that much. They sometimes seemed to idolize the bullies. Racism was rampant as well. People had the right to restrict blacks from moving in their neighborhood. Blacks as well as Mexicans, Chinese and Greeks and Italians were called few choice names. We didn't have that many foreign people in my area, just a few Mexicans. But my mother said in Price in the coals mines her dad worked in, there were a lot and he always made fun of them. My mother taught me not to be prejudiced about other nationalites but I could tell she and my dad didn't like blacks (although there none around us just in Salt Lake.) I was scared to death when I saw my first black person. I was afraid she would come after me. We were so naive in those days. I liked Mexicans, especially the guys. Maybe that's why I married one.

Some of my mother's homemade remedies were mustard plaster, gargling salt water, a rag around the neck with Mentholatum on it for a sore throat. Washing out eyes with salt water, enemas, for dandruff, she would make me lie down on the couch while she put olive oil all over my head and scratched the dandruff flakes off. In the morning before school, she made me drink a glass of hot water with salt in it. She said it would help my digestion. These are just some of the things that were so much different then than now.

Thursday, August 16, 2007

Unbelievable!!!

My old MS Spaces is gone! It took days to find out what happened to it. I had to write to them 4 times. Now I finally got a message telling me they took my space down because I had violated their code of conduct by having inapproriate things on my space. They said they had given me ample time to correct the problem but that I did not do it and so they had no choice but to take it down because the violation was serious! I looked at the site where they list the violations that cause them to take spaces down and could find nothing that I had violated.

For one thing, I was never told there was any violation. And for the other, I cannot for the life of me think what that violation would have been since they were too chicken to tell what it was I did to violate anything. I think it was just a cop-out because they lost my space on their server. So now two years of my journal is gone forever.

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

My Cat Family


To the right is Sonny, my newest addition to my cat family. He is a blue point Siamese that I got from a shelter. He is about 4 months old. He is very cute and so much fun. He isn't as much of a lap cat as Cesar was but he doesn't hide and likes to be by my side all the time, just not on my lap. I got him because I lost both Cesar and Sasha.
Below on the left is Gimli. He is 3 years old. I got him from Marty. He is a black/brown gray tabby. He is very loving but also likes his space. He missed me so much on my trip that he wouldn't leave my side for the first day home. He likes to fetch items like a dog.
Last but not least is Wellington. He is about 6 years old and is a Russian Blue. He came from Monica who had saved him as he was found lying by the sidewalk and he was really small. He is lovable and likes to be around people all the time. He is also very mischieveous and bratty at times. Wellington gets along with all my other cats very well. He grooms them and everything.














Tuesday, August 14, 2007

This is a song from the 60's that describes some of the houses and the things people do here in Utah as well as a lot of other places. I looked up on the hill near Draper and those houses there really reminded me of this song.

Little Boxes
by Malvina Reynolds, sung by Pete Seeger 1962
Little boxes on the hillside,Little boxes made of ticky tackyLittle boxes on the hillside,Little boxes all the same, There's a green one and a pink one And a blue one and a yellow oneAnd they're all made out of ticky tackyAnd they all look just the same.
And the people in the housesAll went to the universityWhere they were put in boxesAnd they came out all the sameAnd there's doctors and lawyersAnd business executivesAnd they're all made out of ticky tackyAnd they all look just the same.
And they all play on the golf courseAnd drink their martinis dryAnd they all have pretty children And the children go to school,And the children go to summer campAnd then to the universityWhere they are put in boxes And they come out all the same.
And the boys go into businessAnd marry and raise a familyIn boxes made of ticky tackyAnd they all look just the same,There's a green one and a pink one And a blue one and a yellow oneAnd they're all made out of ticky tackyAnd they all look just the same
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Vacation

Just got back from a vacation with Tammy and her family from Seattle and the Oregon Coast. We really had a good time and even though it seemed like we were gone forever, we still didn't see even one tenth of what there was to see. All I can say is that it's too hot back here!!

I loved visiting with Jennifer. I like how we can sit in her backyard and not get so hot. Savannah really liked Zoe and hated to leave. Seattle is too crowded though, just like here. Give me the peaceful Oregon Coast. It was so beautiful and green and cool! I liked how we rode the trolley in Astoria and vistited the old mansion. I liked taking a walk on the dock. We saw sardines come right off the boat to the conveyer belt to be processed. I liked all the beaches on the coast and how they were so gorgoeous. I especially liked the tall rocks on the beach. It's hard for me now to walk down to them in the sand so I have to be satisfied with just looking at them. There are so many rivers and bridges and all. I wish I could live there on the coast in a small town.

I wish Alex were here to remember how to get to the redwood forest that we always went to. I find out now that it is 30 miles south of Eureka CA. We didn't even go down that far. I wished we could have visited a lot more places as I know we missed as lot of beaches and light houses. We did get to see the Heceta Lighthouse on the hill near the sea lion caves. I would have loved to go to Patrick's Point State Park in northern CA. Can you believe it? We almost hit a bear who ran right across the road in front of the van. It was a brown bear that looked like it was still kind of young. We also saw a doe and her fawn running beside her and lots of elk.

The Sierra's in Nevada were pretty but dry and roads very winding. The Donner museum is something we always stop at. It was such sad tale. Reno is too big and too many people. They were having a great classic car show there which explains why it was so hard to get a motel there. I thought Charlie would want to stay longer to visit Reno and I wanted to go to Lake Tahoe so that's why I wanted to stay an extra day. But I guess we were all just getting kind of tired and wanted to get home. Others aren't used to traveling as much as I do so I can see why they would want to and also they had to go back to work and needed to take some time to relax. All I can say is: been there, done that. I am glad I don't have that worry anymore.

The lady we stayed with in Santa Rosa has a sister who is a famous writer. Her name is http://www.ellynbache.com/